For individuals or couples, the decision to divorce is quite complicated. A qualified coach can help answer questions about the process from both a legal and emotional perspective. Understanding how to divorce is just as important as understanding whether to divorce. Divorce Beyond Court can help you with both.

As with all systems, families are structured to best function within a context of order and predictability. Divorce upsets that balance and requires a close look at the possibilities for restoring or creating function from what can feel like chaos. Family roles, relationship boundaries, and the general structure of the family is upset during divorce. Creating a new homeostasis that supports the needs of each family member can be accomplished by engaging a coach with the unique skillset to help structure a divorce tailored to the needs of your family.

Oftentimes, restructuring starts with a coparenting relationship that supports appropriate boundaries, communication and information sharing.  A coach with legal and therapeutic expertise can help you imagine, create and exercise a parenting time plan, and a subsequent co-parenting relationship that meets the needs of the children. In order to thrive, children need both a high level of consistency in their schedule, and a low conflict parental dynamic. Coparenting coaching meets these needs and makes post divorce life more manageable for all of you.

Likewise, parents and children are not always in an optimal place when divorce occurs. Coaching is an excellent way to help heal and support challenging relationships in the context of what the law requires, and what the child requires emotionally and developmentally. 

Newly single life…

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As an individual, it is a difficult decision to decide to divorce. This decision can be given some clarity and structure when a coach is engaged to help you see the totality of divorce and  how it can be structured to help meet your goals. Coaching can be very effective during decision making, the actual divorce and separation, and even in the aftermath as you start to live as a single adult. 

Attorneys and therapists can refer clients. Attorneys and therapists can participate in training to better understand the broader aspects of their client’s divorce needs. If you are interested in being well informed, supported and guided through your divorce, please contact us and begin your coaching today!